“It’s good that she’s not asking them to speak Korean or do any sort of Asian role-playing-something that’s been asked of me before (and it’s a bummer, trust). “It doesn’t sound like her newfound preference for Asian men has anything to do with the uncomfortable fetishization of culture,” said Booster. (Whew.) I also shared your letter with him, AMWF, and Booster had some thoughts for you. I ran my general take on race-specific sexual preferences past Joel Kim Booster-a writer and comedian whose work often touches on race and desire-and he approved. Asian Male/White FemaleĪ: Here’s my general take on race-specific sexual preferences: So long as you can see and treat your sex partners as individuals and not just as objects-we are all also objects-and so long as you can express your preferences without coming across and/or being a racist shitbag, and so long as you’ve interrogated your preferences to make sure they’re actually yours and not a mindless desire for what you’ve been told you’re supposed to want (i.e., the currently prevailing beauty standard or its equally mindless rejection, the “transgressive” fetishization of the “other”), then it’s okay to seek out sex and/or romantic partners of a particular race. If small Asian dicks were a thing, I would have encountered at least one by now. Is this normal? Do people just change preferences like that? Also, can you do a PSA about Asian dicks? In my recent but considerable experience, they run the gamut from average to gigantic. But if any of these dudes saw my Tinder matches, they’d be like, “This woman has a thing for Asian guys.” Which I do, but it’s pretty new. We just date and have sex, same as my past relationships. I’m not writing to ask if this is racist, because I’m not asking these guys to, like, speak Korean to me in bed or do any role-playing stuff. I’ve been exclusively attracted to Asian guys since. In September, I met this really handsome Chinese-American guy, and I feel like he rewired me. In theory, I’ve always been into men of all races-but in practice, most of my exes are Latino and white. Q: I’m a straight white woman in my early 30s. Best of Chicago 2022: Sports & Recreation.Click here to join the Reader Membership Community today! Close
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